“I want to change the world” is a phrase we frequently use and hear. Everyone wants to feel that what they do has meaning. How do we balance wanting to change the world with knowing what the world needs changed?

Well meaning donors frequently assume that they know what the homeless need. They are discouraged when we explain that some of the items they want to donate are not what our clients need. When wanting to donate to any charity, it really helps to reach out to the charity and find out where there are gaps and what donations they need.

The same is true when we assist someone with housing. We work diligently to understand what the family needs, while keeping in mind their budget and what they can afford for housing. Many times, the budget determines the size, style and location of the home and that can be hard on the family. For families experiencing homelessness, there is often the perception that a non-profit will find them housing and pay for it. Explaining that the rental assistance they receive is only for a period of time while they obtain employment, learn to budget and pay their own bills is an idea that many have never been taught. Generational poverty is a way of life and the idea of taking care of themselves is scary and in some cases, overwhelming.

Changing the world can begin with changing one family. Changing the world begins with understanding the family and why they are homeless. It begins with understanding the world from their perspective. It takes time and patience, as well as financial assistance. Changing the world of homelessness is a not quick fix but a long journey.